
Frame unwanted things in positive ways.
I was catching myself saying a lot of don’ts to Issa: “Don’t climb the table!” “Don’t run around with a pen!” “Don’t put that in your...

Don’t be afraid to face who you are.
If there’s one thing I could tell my younger self, it’s this: “Don’t be afraid to face who you are.” Much of our lives, we are running...

"I am not who you think I am; I am not who I think I am; I am who I think you think I am."
Amazing quote from American sociologist Charles Horton Cooley: "I am not who you think I am; I am not who I think I am; I am who I think...

Gratitude is an attitude, and so it can begin with the smallest objects around us.
Issa has picked up a habit of saying “gooood morrrning!” to every toy / object we turn on for him. (I think it’s because we usually turn...

Instead of focusing on “losing” weight, we should be focusing on “gaining”.
We often want to “lose weight,” “lose weight,” “lose weight.” But focusing on losing weight often leads to even more weight —> the law of...

Real Freedom is about not doing what I don’t want to do.
When I was younger, I thought Freedom was about doing the things I wanted to do. I realize now, that was a juvenile definition of Freedom...

A true story (of privacy law) in 4 acts.
A true story (of privacy law) in 4 acts: 1. In October 2022, I ordered cookies from the fantastic Milk Bar. 2. The cookies never arrived....

The differences among children's programs we watch that are made in Japan, Iran, and the US are fascinating.
The differences among children's programs we watch that are made in Japan, Iran, and the US are fascinating. - Japanese shows typically...

Thank you to all the mothers, and happy Father’s Day to all the fathers!
Many of my friends asked for soccer or golf time on Father’s Day (deservedly). I asked for uninterrupted family time. We got over the...

I wrote “Letters to My Nephew” for my nephew; whatever else may have happened after, was going to be a bonus.
My father had a great habit: In every family vacation, or day trip, there would come a moment — usually towards the beginning of the...

My first book: Letters to My Nephew.
My first book is out! 15 years ago last Sunday, my brother’s last breath became air (as American neurosurgeon Paul Kalanithi poetically...

Measure the cushion around the risk, not the risk itself.
I always bookmarked this wonderful article by The Economist about Chuck Yeager, the first pilot who broke the sound barrier: “He was in...

Normalize saying sorry -- we need more of it!!
Multiple times a week, I say "sorry!" Because I could have done something better. How could I not?! There's ALWAYS a better way to do...

Conflict to friendship.
I experienced such a beautiful moment of growth and love yesterday: I was playing pick-up soccer, and one of the players started losing...

10 Lessons I Learned in my 30s.
As I turned 40 this week, I paused to reflect on the 10 most important lessons I learned in my 30s. It was a great opportunity to...

Thank god for spring breaks and no school weeks.
Unpopular opinion: Thank god for spring breaks and no school weeks, because they play a forcing function; to force us to slow down, and...

Take your "self" out of every situation.
Take your "self" out of every situation. How many of our grievances / complaints / resentments are because we perceive something as an...

There is an importance in being resolute, simple, and comforting, in times of high stress.
"We got this," "We'll take care of it," "Leave that with us" -- statements like these are outside counsel music to in-house counsel ears....

Our Persian New Year traditions.
Happy first moment of Spring tonight — and the Persian New Year! All who celebrate around the world (~200 million) will be sitting at...





















