Don’t be Work Martyrs folks!!

Especially in light of Simone Biles’s brave decision, Lisa Orbe-Austin, PhD’s Instagram post today really resonated with me. Don’t be...

Results are bonuses, not goals!

We are taught to judge success and failure based on results. But results, and outcomes, are not in our control. Even if we do everything...

Terrifying, or liberating?

“I honestly feel like I’ve only just realised a lot about who I am in my late-mid-30s, and now I’m 40, and it’s terrifying to me that...

Don’t Sell, Inspire!

Don’t Sell, Inspire! Whether you’re selling a product (as in making a sale), yourself (as in an interview), or a cause (as in...

Set Directions, not Goals.

*Direction, not Goal* I’ve had this epiphany that what really matters is setting directions, not goals. If you set a goal, you either...

Would you live [your] life again?

*Perspective Fridays* This is a 2-part question I've been asking my friends lately; and it has shed a lot on the meaning of life for me....

"Thems what thinks they is, ain't."

Beautiful passages from James Hollis's Under Saturn's Shadow: The Wounding & Healing of Men: "Governed as he is by fear, unable to admit...

Perspective Fridays: Do you see it?

*Perspective Fridays!* Do you see it? “The universe is indifferent,” was a line from the show Madmen. Things just happen. Not *to* us.

Limits are Love.

I grew up in a family (and also a culture) in which there was a lot of love & warmth -- sometimes at the expense of limits or boundaries....

Networking is NOTworking!

I was doing a really fun 5-minute speed networking roulette wheel yesterday at a gathering of an organization I’m a member of. About 10...