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“And we rebuild.”

10 years ago today, I snapped this shot walking out of my apartment for the first time after 3 days, in the aftermath of hurricane Sandy....

“I accept fear, with courage.”

*Perspective Fridays* Often our fears about something are worse (bigger) than the thing itself. When we venture out, we realize that the...

Good Guilt v Bad Guilt.

One amazing lesson I’ve learned in therapy is that there’s “good guilt” and there’s “bad guilt” — not all guilt is bad. Guilt from...

Don’t be like this:

Don’t be like this: ⬇️⬇️⬇️ https://abovethelaw.com/2022/09/gunderson-deferred-associate-start-dates/ Either: (1) Your firm’s finances are...

"A and a. Not Together. Never Apart."

Reading Central Park’s bench plaques is an entertaining way to pass time in New York City. This one is one of my all-time favorites!

Firm v In-House lawyer.

Being a firm counsel is like having a handful of balls; sprinting forward to take them to the finish line; then sprinting back to grab a...

Love is built, not found.

*Perspective Fridays* “Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for...

"Why do you think we're so angry?"

Partner Track on Netflix is a bit over the top; but accurate enough to give me chills about my own Big Law experience as a junior...

"Yes, and..." concept.

"Yes, and" is the concept at the core of Improv Comedy. If your improv partner says something, NO MATTER how ridiculous, untrue, or...

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