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“And we rebuild.”

10 years ago today, I snapped this shot walking out of my apartment for the first time after 3 days, in the aftermath of hurricane Sandy....

“I accept fear, with courage.”

*Perspective Fridays* Often our fears about something are worse (bigger) than the thing itself. When we venture out, we realize that the...

Good Guilt v Bad Guilt.

One amazing lesson I’ve learned in therapy is that there’s “good guilt” and there’s “bad guilt” — not all guilt is bad. Guilt from...

Don’t be like this:

Don’t be like this: ⬇️⬇️⬇️ https://abovethelaw.com/2022/09/gunderson-deferred-associate-start-dates/ Either: (1) Your firm’s finances are...

Firm v In-House lawyer.

Being a firm counsel is like having a handful of balls; sprinting forward to take them to the finish line; then sprinting back to grab a...

Love is built, not found.

*Perspective Fridays* “Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for...

"Why do you think we're so angry?"

Partner Track on Netflix is a bit over the top; but accurate enough to give me chills about my own Big Law experience as a junior...

"Yes, and..." concept.

"Yes, and" is the concept at the core of Improv Comedy. If your improv partner says something, NO MATTER how ridiculous, untrue, or...

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