Love is built, not found.

*Perspective Fridays*

“Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a

promise. If love were only a feeling,

there would be no basis for the promise

to love each other forever. A feeling

comes and it may go. How can I judge

that it will stay forever, when my act

does not involve judgment and decision.”

- Erich Fromm

Loving — yourself, your partner, your career, your colleagues — is a decision, not a feeling.

Sparks may depend on chemistry or predispositions.

But to turn sparks into love takes thousands of daily, little and big, decisions.

Don’t be discouraged if you haven’t found the love you expected for your career yet.

Search for the sparks; and then BUILD the love.