• Ali Assareh

How to argue kindly, from Daniel Dennett!

How to argue kindly! A great reminder from the great Daniel Dennett -- useful for conversations at work, and with friends and family too! Four steps to arguing kindly, IN ORDER (that's key!):


(1) You should attempt to re-express your target’s position so clearly, vividly, and fairly that your target says, “WOW! Thanks! I wish I’d thought of putting it that way myself!"


(2) You should l


ist any points of agreement (especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement).


(3) You should mention anything you have learned from your target.


(4) Then - AND ONLY THEN - are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism.


Full article: https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/03/28/daniel-dennett-rapoport-rules-criticism/?fbclid=IwAR2kR21aVcagc1enAFAroo_fNTkwFnQ5-uyqYpPed5eKUkjlvhwlAqag_Y8




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